Comments on: What to Expect… /93/ A comic about being trans male Mon, 19 Oct 2015 19:20:16 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.5.15 By: Jack Sage /93/comment-page-1/#comment-442 Thu, 28 Jul 2011 05:14:08 +0000 /93#comment-442 Awesome comic! Loved it…

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By: whatsnormalanyway /93/comment-page-1/#comment-54 Sun, 27 Mar 2011 18:44:49 +0000 /93#comment-54 In reply to Jay.

Thanks for enjoying them! :D
Updates are actually every Monday.

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By: Jay /93/comment-page-1/#comment-53 Sun, 27 Mar 2011 14:45:15 +0000 /93#comment-53 Haha, I really liked the all in one product, ‘soap/shampoo/conditioner/toothpaste’. These comics are genius. I check in every day for new ones!

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By: whatsnormalanyway /93/comment-page-1/#comment-15 Fri, 14 Jan 2011 03:17:45 +0000 /93#comment-15 In reply to Person.

I appreciate your comment and concern, but my personal experience with trans men has not been that they will take on whatever masculine stereotypes they can to feel like “real men.” Rather, they behave and present in a way that is congruent with how they identify, which is unfortunately often interpreted by folks outside of the transsexual male experience as fake or stereotypical. Even though Mel likes some traditionally “male” things, he’s not exactly the paragon of rugged masculinity either. As a queer activist I’m all for variant gender identity expression, but there are still differences among groups of people that can be shared and discussed. Also, as a work of comedy, this comic explicitly pokes fun at gender roles and masculinity, so I hope that part isn’t lost on you :)

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By: Person /93/comment-page-1/#comment-14 Thu, 13 Jan 2011 21:09:01 +0000 /93#comment-14 I feel that this first comic is very problematic and perpetuates gender stereotypes, which is a problem with a lot of trans men who seem to think that being very stereotypically masculine is what makes them male (and vice versa). This is just sexism seeping into the community, and seeping into to the identity of trans individuals. I’d be very careful with that, especially as this is intended as a source of education. A trans man can wear a dress and be just as male.

I hope you see where I am coming from with this, and I hope my wording isn’t problematic. I do very much like what you’re doing with this as a whole, but this is something that concerns me as a person who identifies outside the gender binary.

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By: Dymara /93/comment-page-1/#comment-13 Thu, 13 Jan 2011 19:24:45 +0000 /93#comment-13 Haha, too true with ‘Cobra Explosion!’ I remember back when I bought men’s toiletries, and was constantly seeing/teasing names like ‘Ocean Blast’ – apparently, for the armpit SO STINKY, it takes a whole ocean to clean!

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By: whatsnormalanyway /93/comment-page-1/#comment-10 Tue, 11 Jan 2011 04:45:12 +0000 /93#comment-10 In reply to puck.

Well, the comic is personal in many respects, but it also aims to portray shared experiences among folks in the trans male community. Mel is just one representation of a guy, and he isn’t always perfect or right, but I’m hoping that people will relate to some of the thoughts, insecurities, and experiences he goes through. I want to introduce other ideas and characters later on that show more diversity, but that’s gonna take more time and ink. Try to enjoy Mel’s endearing naivité in the meantime :)

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By: puck /93/comment-page-1/#comment-9 Mon, 10 Jan 2011 07:16:00 +0000 /93#comment-9 since you ‘do not purport to be an expert on anything [you] talk about,” might a better subtitle be “a webcomic about being *a* trans male?”

i am loving this as a personal story, but when that subtitle gives it undertones of being a universal experience, it kind of makes me less excited about it.

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By: tobyr3 /93/comment-page-1/#comment-6 Mon, 10 Jan 2011 05:49:14 +0000 /93#comment-6 Wonderful product. It’s about time something like this was spawned from the transguy YouTube community. I hope your ideas keep flowing.

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